The interesting thing about life is that everything is relative. Which means that a slight change in:

• situations and circumstances you are in
• the perspective you have
• the emotions you are going through
• even the hormones
• physical state you are in! etc

can change the whole meaning of suffering. And it is not surprising that one huge problem that you encountered once actually seems like a blessing a couple of months later. maybe that is also one extended meaning of:

فَإِنَّ مَعَ الْعُسْرِ يُسْرًا :

Verily, with hardship comes ease

Surah Ash-Sharh (The Relief) [94:6]

Maybe the wisdom lies in understanding and comprehending this reality and have the resilience to endure a hardship with grace. Easy saying than done of course 🙂

so we pray:

رَبِّ هَبْ لِي حُكْمًا وَأَلْحِقْنِي بِالصَّالِحِينَ

O my Lord, grant me authority (wisdom) and join me with the righteous